Sign The Papers! Spouses Bring Divorce Papers To Court If There’s Cheating | Couples Court

Sign The Papers! Spouses Bring Divorce Papers To Court If There’s Cheating | Couples Court

This is Couples Court
with the Cutlers.
This is the case of
Barker vs Davis. You all have
been married
for six years and you actually
dated for 20 years
before that. Yes, your honor. Yes. So you’ve been together
a total of 26 years. Yes. Yes, your honor. BARKER: Yes, sir. Okay, you have
five kids together. Okay, Ms. Barker,
why have you brought
your husband to court today? I believe that my husband
is cheating, I have my
divorce papers. If I found out that
he’s cheating DAVIS: I’m not cheating. I’m leaving him. Wait, so you already have
your divorce papers
drawn out? BARKER: I’m ready, yes. You’re ready? I’m ready. I’m not cheating. If it comes out
that he’s cheating the papers
get filed. I’m leaving him. KEITH CUTLER:
You’re gone? Gone! I’m fed up.
I’m tired. DANA: You have
hit the wall. Hit the wall. I haven’t been cheating,
and I love her. And we don’t have to get
a divorce. We can
work this out. It’s a misunderstanding
somewhere. I love her. There is a misunderstanding,
but I want to make sure
you understand this. DAVIS: Yes, sir. She has got divorce
papers in hand. You realize what’s
on the line here today? Yes, your honor. DANA: A quarter century
of life together. My life with her.
Our life together. And you say you
have been faithful. DAVIS: Yes, your honor. BARKER:
He’s lying. I’m a good man. I take care of my family
and I take care of her. How are you living?
What’s it like in your
home right now? We don’t even
sleep together. DANA: How long has this
been going on? Sometimes I sleep in the bed and he sleeps on the couch,
or he sleeps on the couch I sleep in the bed,
I don’t want him
touching me. How long have you not
wanted your husband
not to touch you? It’s probably been about
six good months. Six months,
maybe a year. Six long months. He don’t come
home at night. So, is it safe to say
the passion of
your marriage is gone? It’s gone. It’s not gone. It’s gone. The past is
not gone. In my heart, it’s gone. All right, so, when
you say the passion
is gone there was a point
you had passion. A lot of it. What was it like
when you were in love? And passionate
about each other. Everything was great.
We would do things
together. He would bring me
gifts home. He would wine
and dine me. He would always tell me
he loved me, how
beautiful I am. I don’t get that
no more your honor. I don’t get that no more. It’s changed. It ain’t the same. So what did you love
about him? BARKER: I loved
everything about him. When we first met,
I met Bernard at a club,
I brought him
home with me. and he never left. He stayed. He’s been
with me ever since. To be honest, he’s been
with me ever since. What club is that?
Were you going
fired up and you know you just…
They just ended here. Yeah, you go to a club
and you find somebody and 26 years later,
you’re still with them. I was a love club we had
met up in and I had
brought him home and we’d been
together ever since. It was good,
you know,
in the beginning. I love you.
I love her. You don’t love me.
I don’t feel loved. You say I don’t
come home, I won’t
come home to nagging. Who wants to
come home to nagging? I want to come home
to being loved. Well, maybe I wouldn’t nag
if he’d come home.
He don’t come home. All right, so
we’ve got a circle going. You don’t want
to come home. He don’t come home. And when you come
home, you nag him. He came here
one morning, your honor. I was so upset
and I was so mad. He had came in,
jumped straight
in the shower. I go to the shower he got a big passion mark
on the right side
of his neck. She did
the passion mark. And that’s what
he said. You honor,
I don’t suck on his… I don’t suck
around his neck,
your honor. So you’re telling that
he had a hickey? A hickey? On his neck? Yes, your honor. Yes. DANA: And you say
you didn’t do it? I didn’t do it. All right. DAVIS: Well, you did. Who else did, your honor? Mr. Davis? That’s what we’re
asking you. DANA: I’m trying to
understand that. You tell us
who did it. She’s the only one that
I’m loving, in my heart.
I am her husband. It says, follow
your lead. She’s not following
my lead, she’s just
going past, disrespecting me. Why would I follow
his lead when I done caught this
man in the bed
with my family member. (CROWD GASPING) Misunderstanding again. Your honor, please
let me tell my story. So we get into an argument. Instead of us
butting heads,
I like to take a walk and walk it off,
you know? So I take a walk, I stay gone
for about an hour, maybe
an hour and a half, two hours I come back after
calming down I got to my bedroom
to see where Mr. Davis was I check in my kids’ room,
Mr. Davis is in my bed
with my family member. In his boxers, your honor. KEITH: Hold on, Ms. Barker… He tells me that she
can’t get at me. Mr. Davis,
you’re shaking
your head, no. Did you have sexual
relations with one of
your wife’s family members? No, sir. Honestly, no sir. How did
this happen? Working third shift that morning, I was cleaning
up in the kitchen, just getting
all the the chores out in some kind of way,
I dozed off and I woke up
and she was under me. When I woke up Ms. Barker
came in the room
going crazy on us and I just woke up
out of my sleep, I didn’t
know what was happening. Hold on, no,
no wait. Hold on. Please, please. Go ahead, go ahead. When you say
up under you… What is that? Up under, beside
each other, just… She was up under. DANA: Was she
leading you on? Your honor No, she was laying
beside me. she was up under him. Okay, what did
you say? He called me there.
He said he fell asleep and when he woke up,
she was there. She’s wearing sexy little pajama pants
and a sexy little
spaghetti shirt. DANA: Wait, hold on. He’s in his boxers,
your honor. And I went crazy. And I said I’m destroyed. KEITH: And what did you say? Pulled her out, tried
to pull her out
but she wouldn’t leave. I just lost it,
your honor.
I lost it. You didn’t even hear
his explanation? DAVIS: No. I didn’t have time
to hear it. Because I lost it. What now? Under you? Hold on, did you ever ask
your family member
about this? So I have a cousin
that passed away.
Rest in peace. Before she passed away,
she told me that the other pet
explained to her that she felt so bad
because she had slept with… with my kid’s father.
He was my kid’s father
before he was my husband. And it was a declaration. Your honor, please
listen to me your honor. After I married
this man this is when it all
comes out that they
did have intimate sex and… He keep lying to me though.
“I haven’t had sex with her.” “We didn’t do anything,”
but I’ve seen it with
my own eyes. DANA: All right,
hold on. Was it that one time
that they got together? I believe it was
more, your honor. When we have
family functions
and stuff they real friendly. He made her a statement. Made a statement to her. “When is you gonna make me
some more of that
good tuna fish?” And we’re still talking
about the stuff
in the can, right? That ain’t the tuna
I’m talking about but that’s
the tuna he loving. That’s the tuna
he loving. I can’t get over it,
your honor.
I need to know. So this instance with
the family member, it was
before your wedding, right? Do you still believe
he’s cheating now? I still believe
he’s cheating, your honor. Okay, so why do you
think he’s cheating now? Okay, so one morning, Bernard
did not come home. I ended up going to
Bernard’s mother house. That’s always his excuse,
I was at my mother’s house. But I had already been
at your mother’s house, baby. Since 4 o’clock
that morning, waiting. You wasn’t there.
He wasn’t there. Something said, walk
down the street. I walked
down the street here come Mr. Davis coming up another
little street, coming on
around the corner. I say, “Mr. Davis,
where you been at?” He say, “I was locked up.
I had been in jail.” I said, you’re lying, I done
caught them people all night. Were you in jail? DAVIS: No. Okay, where were you? The casino. Okays. So you were
at the casino
till 6:00 a.m? Yes, that was my thing. When we argue,
and we get into it,
I’m leaving. I’m staying out.
I don’t wanna do it. There’s a misunderstanding
somewhere. So, Ms. Barker, you have
brought a witness. Yes. Would the witness
come to the podium please? Would you please state
your name for the court? Hello your honor, my name
is Alexa Lewis. So what do you know
about this relationship? I just know that Sandra goes above and beyond
as a wife. Period. And do you believe
that Mr. Davis is cheating? Yes. I seen Mr. Davis
at one of the local
strip clubs I went out with
one of my friends
one night. I look up,
and I see Mr. Davis and one of the strippers
going to the bathroom
your honor. She’s lying. In the bathroom,
your honor. And she wasn’t just going at
the same time, he was going
back there? I mean, he a man and she
a woman, so you know… DANA: They actually
went in together? They was together, like,
hand to hand, like… So it wasn’t that they
were walking, they were
holding hands? Yes, ma’am. And they
went into the restroom. Did you see
how long they stayed? They stayed
in the restroom for about… I know it was a long time
because like six songs
went by so probably
like 30 minutes. It was probably
at least 30 minutes,
your honor. You know, I gotta ask you.
I got my home girl,
we like this. I would expect her to knock
on that bathroom door
and say, “What’s up?” Or be at the bathroom
door and be like, “Dude!” Tell me you knocked
on the door and said,
“What’s up?” No. No, I didn’t,
your honor. When I got home
that night you better believe I woke
her up and addressed her
about what I’d seen that night. Thank you for your testimony.
You can have a seat. WITNESS: Thank you. All right, Mr. Davis,
were you at the strip club? No, sir. So you were not
at the strip club? No, sir. All right. I don’t know
why she would say that unless she was trying
to get with me or
make something happen. What do you think?
I mean, I’m honest. There are reasons
for everything. All right, Mr. Davis,
let me say this. After you’ve already been
accused of being
with your wife’s family member I’m not sure you want
to use as a defense that your wife’s
friend wants to get
with you also. I don’t think you
want to go there. That’s right. That’s right,
your honor. The big picture is,
I’m telling the truth. He’s lying,
your honor. KEITH: You’re
telling the truth? That’s the big picture. But here’s the thing,
your wife is absotively,
posulutely not buying it. Just the big day.
I’m waiting. And we don’t deserve
to get the voice for
our misunderstanding. All right. Ms. Barker.
Mr. Davis. DAVIS: Yes. We’re getting ready to
find out if it was
a misunderstanding. And then you could have
asked if… Your honor… She don’t hold
my last name. Quiet. This court is
getting ready
to find out DANA: If it is
a misunderstanding. Yes, ma’am. In order to get
to the bottom of this the court has engaged
the services of a licensed
private investigator Mark Henry. Yes, your honor. Ron, would you please
escort him in? RON: Mr. Henry. (CROWD CLAPPING) How are you, sir? Good day, your honor. How are you? I am well,
thank you. Good to see you. Good to see you again. You had a member
of your team get Mr. Davis
a polygraph exam,
is that correct? MARK: Yes, your honor. DANA: Okay. Mr. Davis was asked
a series of questions,
is that correct? That is correct. All right. Mr. Davis was asked since August 2011 have you had sexual
intercourse with anyone other than
your wife? What was his response
to that question? His response
was no. What did
the lie detector
determine? The lie detector determined
that he was being deceptive. WITNESS: But I want in,
your honor. KEITH: Ms. Barker (CROWD SYMPATHETIC) I’m just done.
I’m done with
the marriage. It’s over. I’m done
with it. It’s over. 26 years is a long time. DAVIS: That ain’t the truth. I’m done. DAVIS: I love you baby. I’m hurting so bad.
I’m done. DANA: Mr. Davis. I knew
he was cheating. Hold on.
Mr. Davis. DAVIS: Yes. DAVIS: Yes. You say
you love her. The lie detector
indicates that you are
being deceptive. But I wasn’t.
I’m serious. I wasn’t. Here’s the thing. You’re in court today. Because your wife,
the woman you say
you love believes that
you’re cheating. Well, I haven’t. I haven’t cheated
on her. Mr. Davis was asked have you had
sexual intercourse with any of your wife’s
family members? What was his response? His answer was no. DANA: What did
the lie detector
determine? The lie detector determined
that he was being deceptive. KEITH: Mr. Davis, you’re
shaking your head no. DANA:
Ms. Barker… DAVIS: No, sir. What’s going
through your mind
right now? I’m just ready to go
file my papers. I’m done, it’s over. Stop crying. It’s over. This is a 26 year
relationship. KEITH: There’s a lot
on the line here. There are
five kids involved you all have
this history marriage. You know, I think
this is one that we want to talk about
a little more in chambers. So we’re gonna ask you
to come back to chambers and court is adjourned. DAVIS: Yes. (HAMMER HIT) Ms. Barker,
Mr. Davis we thought
it was important because of your history,
we know what having that history
is and how important it is. And we don’t want y’all
to throw that away. unless you really,
really, really think about this,
and want to try to talk
to you and let you know some insight from our
standpoint about how
you can save your relationship. Here’s the deal.
There’s no love
without forgiveness. Honestly, I didn’t
have sex. No, I didn’t. Honestly, I don’t
believe you, so… I don’t believe you. If you’re gonna rebuild
this trust you’ve got to stop
finding yourself
in positions where it looks like
you’re doing something
you’re not doing.Married judges
who put cheating on trial.
This is Couples Court
with the Cutlers.
MRS CUTLER: This is case of
Noltion vs, Noltion. You’ve been married three years,
been together nine years.
Is that correct? Yes, your honor. Why have you brought
your husband here today? Because I believe that
he is cheating on me. DANA: Why do you believe
that he is cheating on you? Because of the text messages
that I found in his phone. (CROWD CRINJES) All right. Mr. Noltion,
why are you here? Yes, your honor. I’m here today to prove to her
that none of that stuff
happened. To save my family
and my marriage, your honor. KEITH: Okay, so are you
cheating on her? No, sir. No, your honor. Your not cheating on her? Not at all, your honor. And your here to prove that
today to her. I can prove it today, yes, sir. Okay, so your relationship,
what’s the status now? Our relationship right now
is down the hill ’cause he’s
been disrespectful to me. You know, he’ll call me fat. (CROWD CRINJES) DANA: You know, hold up. MR. NOLTION: Your honor… He called you fat? Yes, ma’am. Yes, your honor.
Yes, he did. All right. That is…
that is low. That is low. Let me speak your honor. What she’s saying is true,
I did call her that, but, due to the fact that she tried
to belittle me. Because I… DANA: All right,
let me just tell you, …talking about,
she called me “bro”, she called me “dumb”, um… “I ain’t never
gonna be nothing” Mr. Noltion, I am a fluffy girl. You don’t do that to women. I wanna apologize to you.
I’m sorry for saying that
to you. DANA: You just don’t do that. Now, here’s the same to you. You should be his cheerleader
when nobody else
is his cheerleader. In order to make it work,
you have to be his safe place. And you are callin’ him
a nothing, a broke,
a this and that, well, you know,
he’s gonna act that way. What you say, matters. It really does
and that whole notion of sticks and stones won’t break
my bones but words will
never harm me, they do harm you. They hurt. Your honor, your honor… Can I speak? Your honor, I tried to be
on his squad,
but he kicked me off it. KEITH: But you were on his squad
at one point right? Yes, your honor. So, take me back then. What was it like
being on his squad
at first? How’d you get on his squad? Yeah. Well, I met him
at his grandmother’s home. through a friend and when
I first seen him, I was like, “Ooo, he look good”, you know like “Hmm!” He came around the corner
with his shirt off,
I was like, “Woot!” Oh, look at that!
Look at that! You know, so my friend
had told him what I said. I was floating. So, he was like, “Oh, okay” So when it was time for us
to leave, he came running
out the door. He almost slipped down the hill. And he was like,
“Hey, hey, hey!” He was like, I think
you look good or whatever, and I was like, “okay”,
and so he was like,
can I get your number? I gave him my number
and he called me. We started kickin’ it
real cool and stuff. And then, I wanna say
about a week later, we were downstairs
in my house and he was
telling me that, he loved me. I said, “love me?” So, you said it first? Your honor, it was like that
but it weren’t no week later. I night I came over
to her house, I never left. (BOTH LAUGHING) DANA: Hey! MICHELLE: It was a weak later. You were in love right then? I been with her since 2008. I sense a great deal of passion. I mean, I’m looking at that
and you are like, “Yeah, I was
groovin’, I was groovin'” That’s sweet.
But that passion has lead
to this passionate… intense anger. I mean, when you were talking
about how she talks about you, and you were talking about
how he talked about you, and you filed for divorce.
It is reached that point. Yeah, ma’am. Yes, your honor. And it’s like a back
and forth game like, who can belittle
each other the most. And I… You know, getting kicked out
and I don’t wanna keep
doing that. …see this stuff and, I’m a real man. I love my kids.
I took on her kids before
I took onto her. So tell me what happened?
Tell me what happened? He tried to mess with
a family member of mine. (CROWD CRINING) He sent her a message
and she revealed the message
to me. He put in the message that,
how he wanted to have
oral sex with her. He put in the message that,
every time she comes to
our house, how he fantasizes about her. How bad he wants her. And when I go to work,
to come over to the house. So he’s inviting your relative? Mm-hmm. To your house, to be with him
when your at work? Yes, ma’am. Yes, your honor. Mr. Noltion… Yes, sir. Did you send
these text messages? No, your honor, I did not.
I have not seen no proof
of what so happened. Did you send them? No, sir, not at all. You deny that you sent
these text messages. Yes, your honor. You honor, he’s telling a lie. So, why would her family member
make this up? I don’t even know your honor
what’s going on or why her family member
would tell her that. But, when I asked to bring
everybody to the table and show me the text message,
and bring your family member… where that at? Nobody show up. And then what really hurt me,
you honor, about it was, is that he don’t even talk
to me like that. The things that he put in
the message was so provocative,
it’s like… I was like, “Ow!”, I was hot. You know, it turned me on,
you know what I’m saying.
“Cause I’m like, This is my husband but
he’s telling some other
woman this, It hurt me, you know
what I’m saying, I’m like, “Oh!” DANA: How long ago
were those text messages
from your family member? That was May of 2016. And you believe since May, 2016,
he’s been cheating? Yes, your honor, I feel like
he has been because he’s been,
coming in late, he’ll tell me, I’m gonna go
to the studio, and he’ll be gone for like
hours. It’s been going on for
two to three weeks. You know, back to back.
Back to back. And I ain’t heard
nothing yet from him. I ain’t heard a line, a beat…
(MIMCS BEAT) Nothing! I ain’t heard nothing,
your honor! So he’s going to the studio
and you not seen any product? I ain’t heard nothing,
not nothing! What time does he go
into the studio? He goes about 12:30, 1 ‘O’ Clock BOTH CUTLERS: In the morning? Mm-hmm. Yes, sir.
Yes, your honors. Listen your honor, I have… Yes. All right, please Mr. Noltion. I’ve been waiting for her
to come up with that. ‘Cause I have plenty proof. I even have provided
a song for her today. If it’s okay with y’all
your honor, may I…? DANA: Drop that beat.
Drop that beat. It’s like this… He tried to mess with
a family member of mine.♪ I’, trying to keep it real
with you Chelle,
this is my loyalty
♪ Can nobody love you like I do
and I’m honest, see
♪ Beautiful face, you make me
low when I see you girl
♪ You make me smile
when I see them little girls
♪ My world, my life before you
and then I love it
♪ All I want you to do,
believe me and trust me
♪ And when we get up outta here
it gonna be lovely
♪ For real, I love you ♪(AUDIENCE CHEERING AND CLAPPING) And your honor, you can take
that kindergarten rhyme somewhere else because
it ain’t gonna work here,
because like I said, he’s been coming in late,
going out late. Basically he doing
whatever he want
in this marriage. Let me ask you this ’cause
I mean, musicians keep
late hours. I mean everybody knows that. Yes, your honor. Why is his more suspicious
that anybody elses? You know, he blocked me
on Facebook, okay. You see, he not
telling everything. KEITH: Wait, wait, wait… You blocked you wife
on Facebook? I blocked her, my family
and her family too. Yeah, but this is relationship
where you got trust issues. And when you start
blocking folks
and hiding folks, that sends up a red flag. But you and I aren’t friends
on social media either. Yeah, but we’ve been
together for 35 years, I hope
we built up some trust. That’s true. That’s true. Okay. All right. That’s a difference. That’s
apples and oranges. Right now,
we’re talking about you blocked you wife
on Facebook. Yes, your honor, I have
very good reason for that,
you honor. DANA: All right. KEITH: Okay, I wanna hear this. The reason why I blocked my wife
from Facebook, she gone and done that
to me plenty times… No, he blocked me your honor
because, he blocked me because
he was doing dirt. And I had to go through
all his friends and look up under the comments. There was one girl
that stood out to me. And she looked like Ruth Paul
a little bit. So I was like…
it be the one. So I hid it. Boom! There go
his message right there. I said… KEITH: And what’d
the message say? I got proof right here. Ron would please… Right here. Here’s a question. Why did you send a text message to this woman
on Facebook. UNCLEAR I had a lot going on
in my mind. I had a lot going on.
I don’t know what she doing
at her place of residence because she was not
responding to me. I don’t know what’s going on.
So… DANA: Okay. Oh, let me read this. Lady posts and says
she started work somewhere
and your response is,I need to come fill out a app
that’s round the corner from me
I get to work and see you…and they got $ signs
ching ching.
You wrote that? Yes, your honor. So what you talking about,
“I get to work and see you”? It was a mistake that I made
but I never acted on it. Okay, but do you understand
that when she sees things
like this why she doesn’t trust you? Yes ma’am. I was like, “you’re a dog.
You’re a dog.” You’re a nasty dog. You’re not cheating? Not at all your honor. Do you have any other reason
to believe he’s cheating? Right now. Not wanting to sleep
in the bed with me. You know,
he sleeps on the couch. So you believe he no longer
wants to be intimate with you
because he’s go other women? Yes, yes, other women. And
on top of that, with the porn.
He loves to watch porn. You honor,
I have been begging. I’m the one who’s begging
my wife for sex. DANA: Is that true? No. No, your honor. No. No …oh lord, have mercy. No, it’s not. Who wants to get with
somebody that calling you fat.
and ugly. I’m offering to give you my body
and my soul and all of that and
you call me fat and ugly! Well, sometimes when a woman
is going through a situation
like this, she needs to hear advice
from someone who has
similar experiences. And so this court would
like to call, Malaysia Pargo. Who appears on VH1’s
basketball wives of LA. Ron, would you please escort her
into the courtroom. (INDISTINCT SPEECH) MALAYSIA: Hi! KEITH: Hi, how are you? DANA: Ms. Pargo,
thank you for joining us. Thanks for having me. You have been very open
about infidelity issues
in your life. I have. Could you share with the court
and with our litigates some of the things,
the warning signs
that you noticed when you were having
those experiences. Well, what I experienced is,
my husband and I we grew up together
and when the patterns change. Like, when you notice that
the connection change, then there’s something off. That’s when automatically think
that it’s another woman. So, I understand
where you’re coming from. Did you ever search through
your spouce’s phone? I actually did. And, that was my breaking point. It was like, what is this,
who is that? What er…
oh, hell no. KEITH: Okay, so for a woman like
Ms. Noltion who suspects
her husband is not been faithful to her.
What advice would you give her? Focus on yourself. I hear a lot of… like your damaged because
of his words. Well, my grandma always told me,
she said, If you tell yourself that
you’re beautiful, you’re smart, and you can conquer the world.
You can do everything… through the higher power. You don’t have to worry about
someone else breaking you down. So when he say certain things
where you want to agree
with them. And if you agree with him,
work on it. But if you don’t,
you say, I like me
the way I am, and if you’re my husband,
you’re gonna love that too. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) Thank you so much
for sharing with us. Yeah. Ms. Noltion, are you connecting
with what Ms. Pargo’s
talking about? I am, yes, your honor. I’m beginning to see it
from a different point of view. As far as with myself. Maybe I need to re-evaluate
myself, and, to see if this is something
that, I really wanna continue
with him. And really figure out
with myself, “Who am I?” So Mr. Noltion, you stand by
the fact that you have not
cheated? Yes, your honor,
I stand by that fact. I stand by that fact.
I know true, I have not. had physical contact
with no woman but my wife. And Ms. Noltion, you are
convinced that he is cheating? Ye your honor, he’s cheating. I am very convinced. Where your proof? To get to the bottom of this, e court has engaged the services
of licensed private investigator
Todd Redding. Ron, would you please escort
Mr. Redding into the courtroom. Your honor. (AUDIENCE APPLAUDING) DANA: How are you Mr. Redding? Fine your honor. Mr. Redding, would you
explain to the court, the techniques you used
in todays’ case. Yes, your honor. I had a colleague of mine
perform a polygraph examination
on the litigate. All right. And I have
the results right here. DANA: All right. ll right, so in this
polygraph examination, Mr. Noltion was asked
some question.
Is that correct? That’s correct your honor. All right. The first question
that Mr. Noltion was asked
was “Have you ever sent
sexual text menages to
your wife’s family member?” What was his response
to that question? TODD: Your honor, his response
was, “No”. What did the lie detector
determine? The lie detector examination
determined that he was being
deceptive. I did not. He’s a liar. No, your honor. He’s a liar. KEITH: You still maintain that
you did not do that? I still maintain it, yes sir.
God know and god know
I did not. All right, there’s
another question. Mr. Noltion was asked,
“Since being married
to Mrs. Noltion, “have you had sexual intercourse
with any other woman?” What was his response
to that question? Your honor, his response
to that question was also, “No”. What did the lie detector
determine? The lie detector examination
determined that he was
again deceptive. (CHUCKLES IN FRUSTRATION) No, your honor. KEITH: This is your chance
to come clean. I’m being honest. Your honor, I have not had
a relationship physically,
with another woman, besides my wife. I’m through. KEITH: You hear her saying
she’s through this is you last chance
to save this. But I want you to believe me,
baby, I’m… I’m through.
I’m through with you. Your honor, I’ve titled
this case, “Massive Deception”. Wow. He’s lying
and he’s a manipulator
and I’m tired and I’m done. Tell him exactly
what your feeling right now. I feel like you betray, not just me, but your children, our marriage, everything and I’m done. I’m done. I’m sorry, baby. I gave this man nine years
of my life. And I already didn’t feel
good about myself. So when I met him,
it made me feel like I was
on top of the world. ‘Cause he made me
feel like that. At the beginning. And I understand that people
go through things and all that, but when you try to break me
as a woman, that’s my cue to go. It’s my understanding
Mrs. Pargo would like
to share something. Do you thing that if you guys
went to counseling,
you can make it work? I mean, that is one of
the things that I wish
I would have done. Is step back and go
to counseling between
the both of us, because right now to this day,
we still very much
love each other. So before you walk away, make sure that you do not
love him not more. DANA: And let me just
say this to you. Mr Cutler and me
have been together, 35 years. A marriage
and a family is sacred. And you shouldn’t just
throw it away because
you’re mad or you’re hurt. So, I would encourage you, both, to take advantage of
the resources that
this court has or counseling and try
to move that ball forward. No one wants to see
a family destroyed. By the same token,
if you can’t work it out, get counseling for that so
you can move together and co-parent well together. As we say in this courtroom, “Please don’t cheat yourselves
out of a chance for
a good relationship.” Court is adjourned.

39 thoughts on “Sign The Papers! Spouses Bring Divorce Papers To Court If There’s Cheating | Couples Court

  • The Cutler's push spouses to forgive cheaters. I wonder if they would be so forgiving in their own marriage.

  • The Cutler's said that this couple 26 years together means a lot to them. Well, it doesn't matter to this man that is why he cheated on his wife, even with her family members!!!

  • I don’t put up with cheaters and I certainly wouldn’t put up with someone cheating with a family member. 26 years clearly didn’t matter to him when he was cheating with her family members so why should it factor in the decision to stay? Shame on the cutlers for basically pushing her into staying in an awful relationship. Sometimes relationships have a lifespan and they end after 20, 30, or even 40 years. Girl, please run for a divorce and find a man that will love and appreciate you like you deserve.

  • I’m happy that these two women had the courage to put the dogs out tataa so long farewell adios.

  • 😲 like it is what it is so move on to the NEXT! Anyone who likes and comment can do so but FYI I don’t got time for arguing or going back and forth with anyone on YouTube soo haters still gonna be haters and once a hater always a hater it doesn’t matter like if you gonna view the couples court YouTube channel and comment then al least act like grown minded adults to at least comment on what you 🤔and how you really feel because in the real 🌍 nobody got time for games and everything in that category but at least “THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK” and if you feel 👎 about whatever it is on YouTube then why bother that’s all I’m saying but anyone who comments anything bad or negative 👎 or anything inappropriate then you will be blocked and reported you have been warned I’m only being nice about this of what I’m saying🤦🏼‍♀️✌🏼 and P.S. ANYONE WITH SINCE IN THE MIND WOULD AT LEAST THINK BEFORE THEY SPEAK BUT DO NOT COMMENT ON SOMETHING THAT I SAID THOUGH IF YOU WANT TO THATS PERFECTLY FINE BUT I FOR ONE DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR DRAMA OR FOR WHAT ANYONE HAS TO SAY BECAUSE THERE IS ALWAYS CYBER BULLYING AND CYBER HATERS ON THE INTERNET THO SO WHATCH WHAT YOU SAY AND BE CAREFUL AND BE MINDFUL OF WHAT YOU SAY

  • Cheaters dont change honey. My biological father cheated on my mom every chance he got
    Even so far as to use me as an excuse to go see his mistresses. Then when they divorced and he got with a new woman he cheated on her too.

    She did the right thing by getting rid of him

  • Go girl. He is not gonna stop. Get your child support. I bet he wont cheat any more he wont have any money.

  • First case: She actually left him. 95% of the ones being cheated on say they'll leave and don't. She actually left….or put him out, rather.

    Edit: both women kicked their men out. Wow….2 for 2.

  • When you go looking you will find things. Since you wanted to find out stop getting mad when you learn things. If you don't trust him leave him but do so on your own. Stop listening to your friends, cousins, mama's boyfriends third cousin on they daddy's side. Oh and sometimes that friend that came after the fact and told you something instead of addressing it when it was happening may very well just want to break you up because they don't have anyone, and that's fact right there.

  • 19:58 I have not sent no proof what so happen??? I'm not an expert, but in my experience when people run over words and misuse words like this, they are lying. And here we have the deception.

  • Good she left him he is a pig he kept making excuses saying it’s a misunderstanding. A misunderstanding my foot he doesn’t value his marriage or love his children to hurt their mum meant he hurt them too shame on him. He is a DOG.

  • Counseling doesn't always work. That second case had too many issues, including the name calling and belittling her. I.m glad she left and is working on herself.

  • When you meet someone in a club , you get club results in the marriage , unless they are a knew creation in christ , ⏳

  • Wow that first case , I don’t think the cutlers should have tried to talk them into saving the relationship. That man slept with her family members what kind of husband is that .. he’s terrible I’m glad she left his behind

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