The Truth Behind Your Spouse Not Supporting Your Business – Alpha Man Smart Woman

The Truth Behind Your Spouse Not Supporting Your Business – Alpha Man Smart Woman


– The truth of why your spouse doesn’t support your business. Do you sometimes feel
like as an entrepreneur, you’re out there, you’re working hard, you’re putting in long hours,
you’re taking a lot of stress, you’re trying to provide for the family, but sometimes maybe your spouse
doesn’t understand you or in some cases they even sabotage
you and they hold you back and they prevent you from
going to the next level. Today we’re gonna share
with you why that is, how that came about, and
how you’re gonna solve that. (upbeat music) – I think it’s very simple,
lack of communication, because you never tell your
spouse what are you working on. – I think part of it is, one
thing about our relationship, we are very transparent, that … I think a lot of times–
– Sometimes too transparent. – I agree, like she knows, not like, because I think in terms
of husband and wife, sometimes the husband or the wife is out there in the business world and you’re trying to make money, you’re trying to build a business, but you tell something to your spouse, now maybe you’re thinking, oh
he or she won’t understand, or maybe I don’t want to
burden him or her with what’s going through like all
the stress, I will take it on. I don’t think that’s very healthy. With Jenny, I tell her everything. I mean she knows every
single client that I have, she knows every single
partner that I have, knows them very, very well, she knows all my investments,
she knows everything. – Even though I haven’t met some of them. – Yeah, she knows everything. So that’s what we talk about. In fact, I think in our
communication because with what we do, we talk about
business probably 80% of the time. – Yeah, yes we do.
– 80% of the time. We’re talking about business,
we’re having dinner, we’re having lunch, we’re
talking about business, we’re talking about how about this, how are we gonna make it better
or a scenario that we have and we solve the problems together versus I think even with my main
tease sometimes I see the, let’s say the husband and wife, let’s say the wife is a house wife. The husband sometime feels
like, yeah but you know she’s at home, she doesn’t
understand, she’s watching TV, or she’s taking care of the kids, I don’t want to bother with her, and I don’t even want to
bother trying to explain to her because she won’t get it anyway. It’s not her job to get it, it’s your job to communicate
what you’re doing. If you want their support, I always say as the lead of the family, you’ve got to sell him or her, you’ve gotta sell your spouse,
you gotta close your spouse. If you’re gonna go and take
that new leap of faith, take that risk, you want
your spouse to support you, well if you can’t even sell
your spouse on a vision, how you gonna sell everybody
else on the vision? How you gonna get your employees, how you gonna get your
team to work towards together with you on the vision? You can’t even sell the
ones who’s closest to you. – I gotta talk from a wife perspective. Just imagine, let’s say we’re
at home all day, pretend, and then taking busy with the
kids, or busy with the family, and then the husband’s working outside and then coming back home– – Late.
– Late, and then we have nothing to talk about. Like sometimes maybe
from a wife perspective, I wanna tell you what
I’ve gone through today, but then the husband’s so busy, he don’t wanna listen.
– I’m so tired, I don’t wanna hear about it. – Then he’s like, “Okay so what
did you do today, tell me,” and the husband’s, “Oh
I’m so tired, we’ll talk “about it another time.”
– I don’t wanna talk about it. – From a wife perspective,
it’s very frustrating. At least you could tell me
what is not going through, like what is not going
right, what’s not working? I can help you in a way. Maybe I’m not good like
helping solve it 100%, but at least you can tell me
a little, I can try to help, and then sometimes when you’re actually, “Baby I closed this deal,”
or something like that, you could let us know too
and then we will celebrate together and sometimes you
need celebration right? It can’t just be working, working. Then sometimes, the thing is … It’s funny, I sometimes give
him very feminine perspective which he never, never thought about. – Yeah, I agree. – It’s brand new kind of perspective. Then I gotta tell you, naturally, women can read people better. – Yeah, I agree.
– Which means sometimes men stuck with how come this
deal is not going through, this is not really, I tried
to come into it this side, doesn’t get me, but maybe
talk to you wife a little bit. Maybe wife knows, “Mmm,
maybe he’s thinking that way “you never thought about,
how about try that,” right? – I think the whole thing with
this, how we all started is I know when I was speaking
or traveling a lot and we see each other
less and she was at first, “Oh how come we can’t
see each other as often?” Then it’s all, “Because I’m traveling, “I’m speaking somewhere, I’m flying,” “But why don’t you bring me along?” I said, “Bring you along,
like how does that work?” I don’t know, and we
actually thought well maybe we’ll try it once, and she
was actually kind enough to volunteer, she kind of
helped me at an event. When she showed up
because our relationship, the trust is already there, I
don’t have to worry so much. Now keep in mind, you had no
experience running an event, it was a pretty big event.
– No, no. – But she was just trying her best, of course she made some
mistakes, doesn’t matter, but the heart was there
and she was helping out, and then I thought, okay this is nice. – Because you were hiring an event planner for that right?
– I had an event planner. And at time it was a lot
of things were going wrong, a lot of things were going
wrong but she stepped in and said, “You know,
why don’t I help you?” I said, “Appreciate that,” and she did. – I even find a friend to help me out too. – That’s awesome, and then afterwards it was very, very successful. Then after that, what’s
very interesting is I started to get Jenny more
and more involved in what I do. Like to a point where, and of course, she’s so smart and so intuitive that you picked up a lot of different things, and from there, even now,
almost every business meeting that I bring her along,
if I’m meeting with a new partner, a new business
person, always bring her along. Now when I bring her along,
she doesn’t say much, she just observe, but I
always say she’s like my, what is it, the detector, like a detector. Right always after the meeting, I’ll say, “What do you think of that guy?” I would say, “I think that’s a great guy, “I think we can do some
business together,” and she’s like, “No.” She’s like, “That’s no good.” I say, “What do you mean? “I think he’s confident, he
seems to know what he’s doing,” and she will say, she would pick up things that I would’ve never picked up. At first as the successful
entrepreneur I would say– – Alpha male.
– Alpha male. Like, “No, no, no, you don’t
know what he’s talking about, “I know, come on I’ve been
doing business a long time, “I read people very well,” and
I do read people very well, but so many times where
I would read someone and I look at it wrong,
but she’s, I would say like 99% of the time, maybe 99.9%
of the time it’s right. Now it’s easy for me. I just say, “What do you think?” If she says, “I like this person, do it,” “I don’t like this person, don’t do it,” it’s very easy for me, very easy. If you’re planning to
do any business with me, get through her. You get through her, you get through me. She’s like my filter. When I listen to her, her woman
intuition it’s unbelievable. Vice versa, so going
back to the question that if you’re wife doesn’t support you, your husband doesn’t
support you, it’s your fault that you haven’t convinced
them, you haven’t persuade them. Or maybe, let’s face it, as entrepreneur, we have a lot of failures, we
have a lot of ups and downs. You go and present a new idea to your, let’s say to your wife, “Hey
wife, I’m gonna do this.” I say, Dan you just fucked
up the kind of thing you try in the last 10 years,
now you gotta try this again? Right? It happens. But guess what, every
single time, as a lead, as an entrepreneur, you gotta
sell, and you know this, and I know maybe you said it many time. “Wife, this is it. “This is the last time, I’m telling you. “This is gonna be huge!”
– “This is the big thing.” – “This is gonna be huge,
it’s gonna be awesome!” Right, “Didn’t you just say
that like three months ago?” “No that was that, forget that shit. “This, this is real,” and then he fail– – Happens to him too. – It happens to me many,
many times, many, many times. But law of the average,
one of those incidents, you will make it, and
you’ll make up one win, that’s the good thing about business, one win can make up for
all losses, just one. I don’t care if you screwed up five years, 10 years, 20 years, it doesn’t matter. I don’t care if you’re in
debt, it doesn’t matter. One win can make up for all losses. That’s the great thing about business, but just gotta keep swinging the bat, hit the home run, keep swinging the bat. Now on the other hand,
sometimes in a relationship, you have the spouse
that’s also entrepreneur. So you’re entrepreneur,
the spouse is also like, you have an alpha male and
then you have alpha female. Now what do you do? – Wow, yeah. That’s another really tough situation, but I would say, communicate,
still communicate. You gotta make it with
each other and you gotta know clearly role of what you
are playing in your family. It goes back to, we always
talk, there’s only one leader in the family.
– There can only be one leader in the family. – One leader, one follower. It cannot be two leaders. Two leaders are gonna fight.
– Someone has to make some sacrifices. Someone has to to come to
some kind of compromise. You cannot be, “I wanna
build my business,” “I wanna build my huge
business,” well then, you’re not together, you’re not one unit. – When you marry or
even when you’re dating, you could be marrying in the future, you’re basically like on the same boat. You cannot say, “Let’s go
left,” “Let’s go right.” – One is like going that
way, the other one’s going the opposite direction.
– We only have one boat. – Then what happens, the boat just spins. You gotta go in the same direction, because now two people together, you have much more fire power. Again, if your spouse doesn’t support you, it is your job, think about
why doesn’t they support you? If you are honest, why
doesn’t they support you? What about your track record in the past? Have you shown them that you are someone that they can rely on? Have you shown them that
they could trust you? Have you shown them that you know what, by helping my partner, that we
would be successful as well? Or you’ve been kind of
sloppy with certain things and then you don’t have a track record. One thing about Jenny can
tell, she can always rely on, if I say I’m gonna do
this, I’m gonna do it. I say I’m gonna provide,
I’m gonna provide. There’s no, “Well what
if Dan doesn’t make it? “What if he loses it? What if, what if?” What’s your perspective? – I gotta say also, goes
back to communication. Even though you you’ve
maybe had a lot of failures, but then at the other
partner, I think from women’s, we are always supportive in the beginning. Doesn’t matter what you do, and sometimes when I see
Dan’s working really hard, it feels really hard for me to blame him on lacking of some things. Like I know he’s working so hard and he’s trying to be focused in the day, so at the night, okay
I’ll understand that, or tell me a lot of failures, I’ll go, oh okay maybe you had a tough day, maybe let’s forget about it
and then I’ll cheer you up on another successful day. If you don’t say anything, wife is like, “You don’t tell me, I don’t
know what have you done.” Maybe you have been kicking ass outside, or maybe you had 10 failed meetings, but at least you’re trying. If you tell this to your wife, I think your wife or the other partner will be really appreciative and then they wouldn’t
blame you down or maybe, because without communication, all they can do is imagination. I imagine you didn’t work
hard because you failed this, I imagine you didn’t do– – You slacked off. – Yeah you slacked off, you
didn’t maybe talk enough, or maybe you didn’t try enough, but the truth is maybe
you already tried so hard. I think it’s very important. – I think as a man, you’ve
gotta show that conviction to your wife, that even
though when we were together, I was already successful but
not as successful as today, I don’t think we even thought about I’d be this successful, I don’t know. – That was never planned, yeah. – Never thought about,
oh I’m gonna be this big, but it’s more like from the belief that, and still the belief in
her that if someone’s gonna make it that big,
it’s gonna be my husband. – Yeah, I do feel that way. – If she’s met so many men,
so many different people, it’s like you know there’s someone that can make it that big,
it’s gonna be my husband. So are you conveying that
kind of message to your wife? Are you conveying that kind
of conviction to your wife? Are you conveying that kind
of confidence to your wife? I think that’s what missing. Don’t so much blame your
spouse, look within. Look within yourself, the hey, have I done everything I
could to get the support? Not even get the support,
to earn the support. You don’t just get the support, you’ve got to earn the right. You’ve got to earn the support, I think that’s what the big message is. Don’t feel like, oh she’s
supposed to support me, he’s supposed to support me,
he’s my husband, she’s my wife, no put that aside, put that aside. I bet, human beings, if
you’re truly strong enough and you are truly reliable and you truly can give your spouse the confidence, guess what, they will support you. If they don’t, guess what, then probably, they maybe not be the
right spouse for you. But I think most of the
time, if you’re truly strong, they will more than happy, why would they not see you do well? Why would they not want you to succeed? Why would you not want you to
do the best for the family? Of course they would, it’s
you haven’t given them the confidence, that’s the issue. That’s the big message
for today’s episode. Always remember, it’s look within. For something to change,
first you have to change. You want something to
change, you have to change. Comment below, maybe share
with us your experience. What’s it like with your
spouse or your relationship? If you have any questions,
also comment below. If it’s a good comment,
it’s a good question, we’re gonna cover that
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100 thoughts on “The Truth Behind Your Spouse Not Supporting Your Business – Alpha Man Smart Woman

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  • I Dan I'm 23 years old I'm about to go in army I've been watching your videos for a while now and I downloaded your book your an inspiration to me and I respect to the max. Love this video I'm going to my girlfriend to watch it right now

  • Hi Mr & Mrs Lok,
    I thought running solo would be super fast.
    But if i really think deep, I understood, It is my problem that I'm not getting her support.
    I even thought about getting divorce. But this video have shown me a great path.
    If I can't get her support. How do I get others to work on my mission.
    You guys are life saviors.
    Many Thanks.
    Wish you two a very happy life together.

  • Thank you for this great video. Could you please discuss your diet and how your diet and sleeping habits pave the way for your success. Thank you

  • If you want a good woman who truly loves you; get yourself a Queen who looks at you the way Mrs.Lok looks at her Man.

  • Dan, I can get very OCD, irritable and easily annoyed when I am focused on my work and sometimes my partner bears the brunt of my frustration. Do you face similar issues and if so, how do you cope with it?

  • Thanks for the video. It is a very good reminder for a guy like me who has difficulty sharing my burden to my spouse or anybody and try to solve it on my own. Also…working on getting the money to pay for your high ticket sales course. Truly wanna be a high ticket sales closer which i know i can be. Just had a rough 2 years with dishonest partners that wiped me out and left me with all the debt. Was too trusting and didnโ€™t had the balls to just face them earlier even when i found them out.

    For now until i come up with the money, will continue to watch your videos and listen to your webinars and continue working on my high income skill. Thanks

  • I like this video however, Dan I have to disagree with you, not completely, but more than half of what you and your wife said.

    I do agree that it is the person in pursuit of success that has to properly share their vision with their spouse but when your spouse has the mentality of a poor person and the negative attitude towards money that you spoke about in your book F.U. Money then you will quickly become demonized and that reaction is amplified with each failure that you make and of course there will be no support but discouragement.

  • in the beginning in Genesis man and woman very first conversation was a arguemen which lead to the serpent (not a snake) tricking them

  • 80% of your husband-wife conversations are about business?!?

    You're a very fortunate, lucky man Dan to have such a woman in your life!
    Some women zone out within the first 30-secs to 1 min when you explain in detail about your entrepreneurial ventures.

    I think it's just about knowing and ensuring your spouse has similar interests to you as an entrepreneur, as every male businessman needs the feminine support and intellect of their wife.

    P.S. Love the analogy of 'selling your vision to your spouse', you have qualify, convert and close their interest.

  • What a beautiful sharing.. i almost save this video on my folder for the 2nd time, just to make sure that i already save it or not..

  • Dan, YOU and Jennie, your elegant wife are an inspiration and a wonderful example of how a couple should approach the subject of working together. Being transparent as you said is key, and as Jennie said, communication, communication, communication is everything- thats how I was able to close my wife on the program. Thanks to you and Jennie for sharing and inspiring others in similar situations.

  • A wife has the job of providing a respite from the stress and strain of business, not continuing it after coming home. Today's woman needs to stop trying to be a business partner instead of a wife. If you are weak-minded enough to let a woman con you into believing that you could never succeed without her then consider this. When was the last time you saw a woman court a man who is unsuccessful? The feminist is no risk taker. She is not concerned with building up a man straight out of college. She wants the guarantee of the ready made man. Most cannot even build themselves into successes so how are they going to build a man into one? The feminist will attack simply out of sexist bigotry and sabotage a man's efforts. There is also penis envy and malice. High achievers realize that implicit in the definition of achievement is being self made. The superachiever wants to test his ability against a challenge. How accurate would the results be if some woman is figuring out everything for you or WORSE, screwing everything up? She needs to go achieve on her own and not ride some mans coat tails. Not needed is her attitude that whenever you succeed she deserves the credit and when you fail you deserve the blame. Women are not risk takers and the moment you tell her your high risk business plan she will try to discourage you out of fear. Try to build a capital base for investment purposes and she will try to talk you out of it because there is a shoe sale at her favourite store and she wants 2000 pairs of shoes not financial independence. Tell her you want to cure cancer and she will tell you to pick a medical specialty that earns more money instead.This transparency crap is just a set up for divorce court. She will know your assets and how to get them. And divorce court is where you are headed if you ever show weakness around a woman.

    Nietzsche said it best: woman is for the recreation of the warrior. Period.

  • "One win can make up for all losses. Just keep swinging the bat!" I super needed this right now, bec I have had a string of 3 losses and I have been getting anxious. Time to restrategize. Also, we are in the 2 alphas in one relationship boat. I guess I can try being a follower because he doesnt seem to be willing to back down lol. And that is why we clash. Can it be give and take though? Sometimes I follow sometimes I lead? Thanks Dan & Jennie!

  • This is so great! Thanks for your honesty about your relationship and the experiences that you have learned from. I definitely need to listen to my wife more often, trust her and get over my own ego. Thanks again, this was really helpful!

  • And behind every successful woman there's a man too. I our family, I'm (the wife) the alpha and my husband is always supportive (e.g. putting our toddler to bed on the nights I have HTC class)… I think it could be a bit more challenging though when the woman is the businesswoman, the wife and the mother… I can't ignore house chores (not yet at least) lol

  • Really great subject and I do agree that it is extremely hard to succeed if both the man and wife are or try to be the alpha in the family.

  • YES! I'm not the only one talking about business 80% of the time with my partner!
    And she says I don't have other topics to talk than business…

  • Thanks Dan. Very good video. You both are a great team. My question: How do you convince your spouse on alpha male habits like calling a "F" a "F". Some women (and men) find this habit disrespectful and even say its discrimination. Could you do a video on this ie alpha male habits in 21st century. Thanks.

  • Thanks For this Dan and Jennie Lok, its so real and relevant. These skills are so important to be a happy entrepreneur couple. I have some work to do on my communication ๐Ÿ™‚

  • I like your message that for the spouse to support you that you need to earn it cannot be given like respect.

  • Thank you so much Dan. You changed my life completely. You are not only knowledgeable in business but also extremely good in handling relationship. I really wish I watch your video earlier before the encounter of my divorce.

  • The only thing I would like to add to this is don't date insecure women (or women with insecure men) because they may sabotage your business out of fear of you having more options. I know this sounds obvious but insecure people often seem supportive at first if you're just starting out than change as you start to gain even a little success.

  • Every successful asbend need asuportive wife. Your half of the heart is your wife allways, Go for you I'am happy for your .mrriage

  • I'm only 4 minutes in, and I can tell you that I LOVE this perspective! Definitely don't make your spouse a "silent partner". They can be a great asset! Just because she's not "in business" doesn't mean she doesn't have a value or perspective that can't help you. However, if you have other problems in your relationship… and if there's RESENTMENT… and she's "dismissive" or just resigns to let you do whatever you want to do… consider that a big red flag for your relationship. Been there, done that, got the divorce to show for it. Whenever I start dating again, and things get serious… I'll probably show her this video.

  • You even look alike lolz.

    Sincerely this is a big issue that rocks marriages and affect any man thriving in business. My previous businesses failed because I felt my wife would not understand the nitty gritty of such businesses. I took my time to show her the present one am doing and trust me it's been mind blowing the success rate. Love that part where a man have to discuss any business venture with his wife. Jennie's statement about communication and there can be only one leader are profound.

    Thank you Dan and Jennie for this powerful video

  • Yes, communication between partners is essential. I am married for 20 years now and our relationship grow to a different levels before 10 years when we decide to communicate our needs and wants authentically to each other and tell the truth without the fear of rejection. We decided to set each other free to do what we enjoy and trust that this decision will bring more passion to our relationships. So when he is fishing i am reading a book, listening to a podcast or taking notes for my next post, presentation or book. When i need to work late hours he is free to sleep or go out and watch football. We are free to be our selves and we are more close than ever.

  • You two make some really good points. I agree that communication is the key… and the husband needs to he humble enough to apologize if/whem he messes up on a business venture… been there a few times ๐Ÿ™‚ …and yes, of course my wife wants to see me succeed.

  • Hi Dan and Jenny, when I met my husband he was Alpha male but since we have had our first son and he started a office job he has lost his drive and ambition. He has no real vision for our lives and goes around in circular reasoning that he needs more energy to have a vision. What can I do to help him be a better leader? And how does Jenny manage her time to do everything at home and with Dan?

  • This is the video I needed to see today. I'm 25 and have been married for 3 years and my wife seems to enjoy the more stable things in life. I feel very unsupported when I try to pursue entrepreneurial opportunities but to be honest, I haven't proven myself or earned her support. We've always gotten by and I do my best to support us financially in sales but I haven't had a victory yet. Just survival.

  • Teach those western people with screwed up brain who think themselves as super men or God that needs one. But apart from everything thin you said. Your wife is very special and kind hearted.
    Some of the modern woman are too hardened or too am also important. As if they feel small and insignificant when the man is the one having all the success.

    Humility and Love, great and true love destroys jealousy and hardness of heart.
    Be submissive is the only key as the bible says. When one party accepts it as okay if my husband become the president am happy with that.

    The modern world through media and the whole system deliberately destroyed womanhood from their true position in family or relationship. A lot of people don't know this.
    Humility humility from submissiveness is not slavery Love tenderness that is your key people.
    If a woman doesn't have or build these virtues no matter how much you involve her she still would be what she has been.
    This is exactly why I love Dan Lok not being a typical westerners the way their minds works is more realistically down to reality.
    I can't imagine watching this guys videos and be not inspired and actually succeed.?
    It's all about the heart. The HEART is where it's at. And these couple do have that. But of course hearts can be repaired and shaped through learning and many ways. But the is the Key.
    When fuck all the girls at work and everywhere and your view of wife is diminished she may not catch you red handed. But hearted towards her can be sensed with that sixth and so she doesn't support. Do you have the heart or the cock is all you got.

    LOVE IS WHAT WE NEED COMPASSION…..I LOVE YOU DAN LOK AND FAMILY.

  • Love the information… thank you… what if sheโ€™s not a team player? What if she doesnโ€™t support you during the hard times? What if she is self absorbed and doesnโ€™t hold the same standards as you? I really needed this today… however these are my obstacles.

  • Mr Lok sometimes words are not enough. Women who are in a serious relationship also expect to see results or at least as Jenny pointed out effort on the man's part. Trust takes time to build and effort to maintain. Also maybe men should not worry so much about eliminating all competition or getting in a pointless rat race just to gain respect and lose family. For some women I think their attitude and values also play an important role maybe even more than their bank account.

  • Dope broski!!! If my track record is bogus, why would she be confident to follow me????? Look within yourself first. Yessir.

  • Wow this is so much more effective than going to therapy. Thank you for showing us what a healthy marriage looks like, especially those of us who had horrible examples growing up

  • Amazing-amazing vedio thank you so much for both of you for making such a great vedio . It changed my life. thanks a ton.

  • Thank you for sharing your personal life with us. Stronger together. My husband is my Jenny and I am always so grateful and surprised by how supportive he is with me. I would probably work myself to death if I didn't have him to help me to stop and remember to enjoy life. Jenny you rock! Dan – I am learning to be a high ticket closer from you right now. One day I will teach you to be a HTC and how to cook a great meal for Jenny ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜Ž

  • This was a hard video to watch because I went through this. I didn't get it and I didn't understand but it was the concept of what he was wanting to do, not from of a lack of faith in his ability to make it happen. I know he can do it, I just didn't understand what he was doing. It was a completely foreign concept to me as I'd never heard of it. It took over a year for it to finally make sense! Had we expressed our feelings and communicated better, I think I would've understood sooner. I know being defensive instead of admitting total confusion didn't help either.

  • Dan/Jenny, top notch video. Now I see what needs to be done to earn the support for where I want to go. I've had failures, and I know why. Thanks again. Keep us the great videos. Hopefully, the HTC course will be offered in 2019.

  • Such a cute couple! You are so right… need to communicate. My passion is to help entrepreneurs divorce-proof their marriage!

  • DAN I must say you are not just an entrepreneur but a person who is more like preaching to my life I really appriciate what you share with us I always make sure I involve my wife in every part of my life

  • Dan, nice advise but what if the wife is not ready to listen. Doesn't care about what husband do? It's happening in many asian families I guess. Wife is not ready to listen. She is always busy with kids and household stuff.

  • Handsome man beautiful woman
    Intelligent couple.
    Greetings from Ghana. Your videos are inspiring even though I am still searching for a job

  • Thank you Dan and Jenny, I listened to this when I joined HTC in Dec. And with welcome packet you and Jenny sent a welcome video. I showed that to my husband. He looked at it and said "I dont worry whether or not you will succeed because I know you will". Great right, but he left the convesation really not understanding my goa,l and that is my fault. But this video he saw, and it made all the difference. We had a complete conversation about HTC and how he can assist me in my (our) goal. My husband has just signed up for HTC today. So thank Sifu and Jenny

  • Thank you for the inspiration Dan. I definately know this is the type of relation I want to have in my couple. Wish you the best !

  • I hope I can foster this strong of a relationship with my wife as we move into the next phase of my business. And if she's up for it, a few of her own. I appreciate this video, thanks Dan!

  • Thank you Mr. Lok. Your videos help to keep me on course. And you introduced me to Mr Pena and his methodology. I will be forever grateful.

  • Dan!
    You could speak to so many men to listen to their wives
    Include us in business ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

  • Ah! I've been watching your videos consistently throughout the week and hearing the back story on why she's behind all your presentations really inspires me. Thank you for sharing!

  • Thank you so much for your inspirational video. This info was super helpful and real information that usually girlfriends we ignore but now thanks to you both I am aware of what I have been doing wrong.
    I cannot wait to see next coming episodes on 2019 of alpha man smart women. I would love to watch these one as a season of your channel more often of team Dan Lok.
    Lots of blessings and greetings from Mexico!

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