Why I Became A Hairstylist – Marriage Counseling

Why I Became A Hairstylist – Marriage Counseling


Hi guys and welcome to this video. Why i became a hairstylist? I get asked that all the time. I have answered briefly in some of my marriage,
family and divorce videos. I have never went into that much depth with
it. I became a hairstylist because my husband
had an affair and left the family for a hairstylist. She obviously encouraged the relationship. He came home one day and said the hairstylist
asked him did i cheat on my wife? I looked at him and he laughed it off and
said i would never cheat on you. So bottom line i became a hairstylist to change
what happens in that stylist chair. Welcome back, OK their was a men that sat
in my chair many years ago when i was working as a full time hairstylist. I am not working in hair now i am a licensed
cosmetologist and i hope to start back part time. I absolutely have such a passion for doing
counseling marriage advice counseling in the stylist chair. Hairstylist are much more than just someone
who does somebody’s hair their a counselor, their your friend, their a chemist if you
will. I wanted to change what happens in the hairstylist
chair. I wanted to different than what was done to
me when my husband left the family and our kids of 2 & 3 years old for somebody else. One time many years ago a man sat in my chair
and told me him & the wife did not have much time together after their baby came along. Doing what i do best, marriage counseling
i believe i very boldly professionally, as nice as i could say to him you have to make
time for the relationship or make time for divorce court, their is no in between. I was very professional in the way said this
to client. We just talked and the bottom line is when
he left my stylist chair i gave him a renewed hope for his marriage relationship, as well
as a great haircut. The two in one right, cheapest counseling
session you ever get. Their was another client that sat down in
chair & said him & the wife are not getting along that well. If i was that type of person i could have
had me a cheap affair. That would have been an open door for a lot
of hairstylist right, as it was for the stylist that had an affair with my ex husband. I am above that i began to do marriage counseling
in the stylist chair. So once again he got more than a great haircut,
he got some free professional marriage advice. I say professional
when you been there done that sometimes you can just see by looking in on a situation
what it might take to solve fix to make it better a marriage relationship. Much more so than if you go to a licensed
counselor with degrees you know what i’m saying? Once again i helped my client perhaps even
save his family if any of you guys out there have marriage advice issues watch some of
my videos on marriage, family, divorce. I think they might give you a new insight
into marriage itself & what it takes to have a long term successful happy marriage. This is especially important when children
are involved. Why don’t you have this great marriage if
giving marriage advice? Why don’t you follow your own advice? Great question, but sometimes it can take
somebody looking in from outside. I can not tell you how many men have sat in
my stylist chair when i was doing hair & they sit down & unload about their wife. I think you have such a unique opportunity
as a hairstylist to change what so often might happen in those situations. That is my whole reason on becoming a hairstylist. I love doing hair i consider it an extra bonus
to be able to save the family, to do different as a hairstylist than what was done to me. I think you get up close & personal when cutting
men’s hair. Men they unload, that’s why i say never let
hubby leave home upset, or after fight without making up because there are so many women
out there who are more than willing to pull that man away from the family & so often as
i said in earlier videos. It’s not because they want the person, it’s
simply they want the challenge, or what the person has, or whatever other reason. In my own personal situation i think the hairstylist
considered it a challenge to pull my husband away from his wife & kids. After she got through with him she no longer
wants him tossed him aside. This is too often what happens & to be able
to talk with that man & to say hey when the men would sit down & start talking about their
wife telling me how they were upset something she did i would be funny with it i would say
take her some flowers, take her out to dinner everything’s gonna be fine. The men would go on to insist it wasn’t their
fault saying the wife i made it funny once again and asked client, well what did you
do? The bottom line i love counseling & i love
marriage counseling particular & if you watch some of my marriage, family & divorce videos. I know what i’m talking about. Unfortunately it’s one of those things where
you have to have been there done that to know what your talking about. You want to make a difference to make sure
same thing doesn’t happen to somebody else at least not by some negative action as the
stylist did who cheated with my husband. She handled the situation in a negative manner
causing the break up of our family. So i just really want to change what happens
in the stylist chair and bring some positive out of what happened in my own personal situation.

One thought on “Why I Became A Hairstylist – Marriage Counseling

  • Marriage counseling done best as a cosmetologist in my stylist chair. Men get a great haircut & some free marriage advice!!!!

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