Signs That Your Relationship Is Over | Surefire Signs Your Relationship Can’t Be Saved!

Signs That Your Relationship Is Over | Surefire Signs Your Relationship Can’t Be Saved!


Hi, I’m Coach Natalie and welcome to
HAPPILY COMMITTED Happily Committed is a project that me
and my amazing partner Coach Adrian put together to help couples all around the
world stay happily committed to one another. Committed to the process of
growing together, committed to the process of learning to grow, to love, to
explore and experience life together without having to sacrifice the
relationship along the way. This video in particular is a very sensitive topic for
many and the topic is: how to know if your relationship is over. How to know
when it’s time to call it quits. I get asked this question in so many
one-on-one coaching sessions that I figured it was important for you guys to
have a couple of signs that you can look at and look for in your relationships to
determine whether or not continuing to try is worth your while. Sign number one: your spouse has lost all
respect for you. No matter what you say, no matter what you do, no matter how hard
you are working or how much you are trying, your spouse doesn’t respect you.
It can be the way they speak to you, maybe they use derogatory language, maybe
they call you a you-know-what, or say you’re behaving like a
you-know-what, maybe they’re not mindful of the way you spend your time, maybe
they’re not mindful of how their time might affect yours. No matter how many
times you’ve tried to speak to them about it, no matter how many ways you’ve
tried to inspire change, your spouse just does not respect you. Similarly sign number two to know if
your relationship is just not working is if you’ve lost respect for your
spouse. Are you losing patience with them? If they ask you to change your behavior
are you reluctant in trying to change it? Are you not respecting their time their
goals their ambition their journey? You are 50% of this relationship and without
your trying, the relationship will not succeed. It is doomed to fail so if you
are watching this video saying, “Yeah, I’ve lost total respect for my partner,”
then that might be a humongous sign that this relationship is no longer of
interest to you, it’s no longer serving you and that you should disconnect. Sign number three: you think about your
single life all the time. You imagine what life would be like without your
partner. Perhaps you present yourself as if you’re single, maybe you speak to
people as if you’re single, maybe you’re acting more flirtatious in
public, maybe you’re enticing other people to express interest in you,
maybe you’re expressing interest in other people. What can begin as just
playing with fire can quickly get out of control. So if you’re constantly
fantasizing about what life would be like without your partner instead of
fantasizing about how to fix this and how to make your relationship better,
that is your subconscious telling you that you’re disconnecting and that this
relationship may not be of interest to you anymore.
So the third huge sign to look out for is you and how you’re perceiving your
future and what you visualize when you imagine your future. Is your partner a
part of it or are you riding solo? Similarly this goes into sign number
four. One of the more painful signs to notice, one of the more painful signs to
deal with, something that comes up in my one-on-one coaching sessions often
enough is when your partner is having an affair and refuses to discontinue it. If
your partner is having an affair and refuses to give up this new relationship
with this new person, that is something that you need to look at as a sign that
this relationship may not be serving you. Because earlier in this video I
mentioned that you are 50% of this relationship. So who do you think is that
other 50%? Your partner. And if your partner’s 50% is not in this and instead
is more busy or more focused on some new thing, some new person, some new
conversation or new experience with this new person, and they refuse to give it up,
that may be a very clear and very painful sign that your relationship is
not working and that you might have to decide to take the leap into something
else, whether that means beginning a journey
independently, whether that means finding a new companion, the next step beyond
this first step is for you to determine, it’s for you to decide. But if any of
these signs are things that are resonating with you, are showcasing
themselves in your relationship, this might mean that this relationship is not
something that you should continue investing in and that you might want to
disconnect in hopes of a new horizon and a new experience somewhere else. I know
it’s easy for me to sit here and make this video and tell you, “Hey, these are
the four signs to look out for.” But in reality, it is probably really hard for
you as the viewer to hear them, to look for them in your relationship. To even be
questioning whether or not your relationship is salvageable is so
emotionally draining, so spiritually taxing. And so if you are here, I send my
heart out to you, I send you so much love and so much strength. You are brave for
being on the internet looking for answers, looking
for signs and looking for solutions. And for what it’s worth,
you’ve come to the right place for them. We have built this project around people
like you to keep you happily committed, to help you understand where you stand
and what is in your control and what isn’t. If you would like to discuss these
signs further, if you would like to add additional signs, that you think are
really important for us as coaches to share with people, I invite you to leave
a comment under this video. Let us know what’s going on in your relationship, let
us know how we can serve you and how we can help you stay happily committed. I
also invite you to hit subscribe. We release content like this and other
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availability. My name is Coach Natalie, thank you for tuning in to Happily
Committed. I look forward to connecting with you in the comments section below
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